I have always been a fan of decorating our house for Halloween. At the same time, I will happily admit that I am a bit of a wimp when it comes to the scarier or more ghoulish decorations. I have a few neighbors who go all out and create amazing haunted houses every year. I love to walk by and check out their set-ups, but there is no way I could sleep at night if I had some of the more ghoulish decorations at my house.
If you have small children, you have small accessories. A LOT of them. Depending on where you live, that can include mittens, beanies, scarves, umbrellas, sunglasses, hats to protect from the sun, flip-flops – you name it. If you’re lucky, like me, you live somewhere that gets seasonable weather and calls for both cold and warm-weather accessories – double the “stuff.”
I think it was somewhere between the arrival of Kid #2 and Kid #3, that I had finally had enough of trying to keep track of all of those teeny, tiny things. (You can only deal with so many meltdowns as a result of your three-year old not finding his absolute-favorite-can’t-live-without-it pair of sunglasses.) I needed to figure out some sort of easy closet organization system. We didn’t have any place for one of those cute, locker room-style mud rooms that have become so popular. I was stuck trying to make the most of a standard coat closet.
Our office tends to be the dumping ground for our family. Anything that doesn’t have a home seems to wind up getting stored in the office, leading to a large accumulation of
One of the things that was taking over the office was a large amount of gift-wrapping supplies. Not only was it all over the place, it wasn’t pretty to look at and was causing a large amount of visual clutter.
Mail that needs to be opened and sorted. Paperwork coming home from school. Random odds and ends that are going to some other final destination. During baseball season, I probably remove at least three baseballs per week from the counter. (I’m pretty sure that baseballs are breeding and reproducing somewhere nearby – that is the only explanation for their seemingly ever-increasing numbers.)
My boys come home from school and my kitchen island is instantly full of binders, books, reading logs, lunch boxes, water bottles and whatever else they pull out of their clown-car-esque backpacks.
I am a bit of a hoarder and I have a hard time letting go of STUFF. I get emotionally attached to things. I worry that if I get rid of some piece of clothing/home decor/furniture/whatever, I’ll need it sometime in the future. I actually have a physical reaction when I donate items or have a garage sale. When it’s time to let things go, I just feel…off.
While I’m not as organized as I’d like to be with our “stuff,” I might be *slightly* uptight when it comes to our family’s schedule. Read More
What do you want to have front and center? Do you prefer a traditional, paper calendar? A whiteboard that you update each month? An electronic calendar that you can access from anywhere? How do you want to deal with the paper clutter – do you want it tucked away (out of sight, out of mind!), or do you want your paperwork out in the open, so that you don’t forget about it? I’ve seen a lot of different options for creating a Family Command Center. I can appreciate the aesthetic of them all, but a lot of them are made up of materials or items that I personally wouldn’t use. That’s OK, because that system works best for THAT particular family!
While I’m a very visual person and I like to have my schedule some place very visible for both myself and my family, I also like to have my calendar with me everywhere I go. I use a combination of whiteboards and a cork board (hung in a central location in my home), as well as the calendar app on my phone. No matter what materials you decide to use in your Family Command Center, keep in mind how all of the pieces will look when they are hung up together. My unifying theme is the color black – black frames and black metal/mesh.
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A whiteboard, dry-erase calendar. At the beginning of each month, I go through and put all of our family’s activities on the calendar, as well as note any holidays, birthdays and special occasions. All of the activities on the board can sort of blend together, so I use a different colored marker for each family member. This makes it MUCH easier to see everyone’s schedules, and makes the calendar looks less visually-cluttered.
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While this provides a great “big picture” visual to all of my family members about the month’s activities, I also rely heavily on the calendar app on my phone. I use the iCalendar app that comes standard on all iPhones. There are so many great features that make it easier to keep your schedule on track. Not only does it allow me to have access to my calendar at all times, it also allows me to add calendar items to my husband’s phone, and vice versa. The calendar app allows you to color-code your calendar items; I use the same colors for different family member’s activities in my phone that I use on my white board. (For example, all of my activities are pink on the whiteboard, and pink in my phone’s calendar app.) So many of my kids’ sports programs use online schedules, and one of the absolute best features of iCalendar is the ability to subscribe to outside calendars. That way, I don’t have to input any of the scheduling information myself (eliminating the possibility of accidentally typing in the wrong info), and any changes made to the main calendar will automatically update on my phone’s calendar. (Just make sure you set up your subscription to automatically update regularly)
A cork board. As much as I try to limit how much paperwork I keep, there are just some things that I want to keep for reference, and I want to be able to find the the information quickly – school calendars, invitations for upcoming birthday parties, contact lists for that season’s sports team, etc. Because this is such a visual part of the Family Command Center, I consider this prime real estate. Be choosy about what gets to go up on display – don’t let it become a paperwork dumping ground.
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Weekly menu & “To Do” List. This is probably the most important part of my Family Command Center. With three kids in different activities, as well as Chris’ and my schedules, meal-planning is HUGE for keeping my week on track. Read more about how I do my weekly meal planning HERE, and see Three Easy Ways to Make a Menu Board.
I love a good To Do list, and I find it extremely satisfying to cross off completed tasks. (I will even write in a item that I’ve already completed, just so that I can have the satisfaction of crossing it off.) I use this for daily chores, as well as tasks that aren’t urgent, but that I just want to keep on my radar.
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Hanging file folder. I’ve decided that 2017 is going to be my year for tackling my paper clutter (which tends to end up taking over my kitchen counter). I’ve also decided that I really only have two categories of paperwork that end up lying around: forms that need some sort of action, and paperwork that needs to be filed away. I used the bottom slot to hold supplies that get used regularly – Post It’s & dry eraser markers. I dressed up each slot with a label that I printed out on white card stock, and then glued the label to a larger piece of colored cardstock. I then used embroidery floss to tie on the label.
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In an unexpected series of a events, I went from a being a stay-at-home mom who enjoys DIY projects to doing a few segments as a “DIY Expert” on a local news’ morning show. (You can watch the first segment HERE.) The whole thing is still quite surreal – I watch the segments and think, “Is that really ME on TV???” I find the title of “DIY Expert” to be especially hilarious. (I guess “stay-at-home-mom-DIYer” doesn’t quite have the same ring to it in the news industry.) But, I’m enjoying the unexpected change of direction my path has taken. Probably not ironically, it all began with a Pinterest project. Read more
It all started when I made an L-shaped table to go behind my sectional sofa. The table was inspired by a Pinterest project that my friend M had pinned, so I had shared my progress with her and our friend P. P worked for a local parents’ magazine, and asked me if I’d be willing to write a monthly how-to craft article. While I’ve loved making crafts since I was a kid, I had never thought about being the one to actually write the directions. The pressure!!!
So, I took on the magazine “gig.” It’s fun, it doesn’t add too much on to my plate, and the monthly check pays for my supplies (with a little leftover.) My third project that I did for the magazine was the Christmas Wishes Ornament. This project is near and dear to my heart, as it is inspired by a gift my two younger boys made for me in first grade, with one of our family’s very favorite teachers.
If your child is too young to answer the three wishes above, try one of the following variations: